When Claire Lotz of Fullerton received her divorce decree in the 1970s, the Catholic mother of two felt like a pariah in society and disconnected from her religion. “I didn’t know any other divorced people and I felt like I was excommunicated from the Church,” said Ms. Lotz, now a 65-year-old parishioner of St. Joseph, Fullerton. “In my generation, we were raised to believe that divorce was a big no-no.” Shame kept her from taking Communion for years. However, after moving from Howard County to the Baltimore area in the late 1980s, she was referred to the Friends of Mercy – a support group for people who are separated, divorced and widowed launched by a nun from Mercy High School, Baltimore, – and the humiliation she felt about her divorce was replaced with confidence and a re-energized religious bearing.








